You are allowed to slow down when (even before!) the pace feels like an assault on your sensitivities.
You are allowed to say no when saying yes would mean abandoning even the smallest part of who you’re becoming.
You are allowed to stay home when the world feels to stimulating, too big, and too dysregulating.
You are allowed to go out and live bigger when your life feels too tiny or tight.
You are allowed to ask for help even when your need for support seems frivolous to someone else.
You are allowed to step away when staying is draining your vitality.
You are allowed to desire, even when what you want is uncomfortable for those around you.
You are allowed to speak up, even when keeping quiet makes you appear “good.”
You are allowed to stop trying to be good, even when those you’ve been good for, act appalled.
You are allowed to deconstruct any story that doesn’t promote your wholeness.
You are allowed to connect with people who nourish you, even when others are threatened by your thriving.
You are allowed to decide on your own hell yes’s and fuck no’s.
You are allowed to take up space without a single hint or murmur of an apology.
You are allowed to feel wild and untethered, even though you’ll be judged for your freedom.
You are allowed to follow your intuition, even when no one affirms its wisdom.
You are allowed to call holy, anything and everything that feels sacred and worthy to YOU.
Because you are worthy,